Hi Friends,
My children do a beautiful mindfulness exercise at preschool called ‘deep breathing art’. The teacher places 3 circles of different colored paint on a piece of paper. Then the children are instructed to take a deep breath in and then exhale into a straw pointed at the page of paint. The visual produced is one of vibrant splatter paint or tie die. It’s a fun way to teach kids a breathing technique. We then hang these paintings up on our refrigerator. It’s the hope that they can be a reminder to take a deep breath when feeling overwhelmed by big feelings.
I chatted about the boys’ breathing art with them the other day over ice cream. I asked them if they thought we could use those same deep breaths the next time they are feeling frustrated or having trouble sharing. The response was a resounding, ‘Yes, Mama! Of course!” (They were in splendid moods because of said ice cream).
Fast forward to a tricky moment that is bound to happen with young children. The boys started to fight over a toy (maybe also in part due to a sugar crash from said ice cream). In the moment of the heated emotions, I reminded them of our intention to take deep breaths. Let’s just say this suggestion was not well received.
We rode out the storm of discomfort. When moods had improved I brought up the goal of leaning into our breathing art breaths when we feel upset. They said, “I’m sorry, we forgot mama.” And “we will try again tomorrow.”
I think we can all relate to that moment when we forget our mindfulness toolkit. We often practice these mindfulness exercises in a contained space, whether in a yoga studio or at home. These spaces are by design meant to isolate us from the trickier moments of life. We use our time on our mat to sharpen our mindfulness skills. It is then the hope that we can carry those tools with us as we encounter the more challenging aspects of life.
But sometimes we forget. A stressful moment arises and perhaps we forget to take a deep breath. The good news is, it’s not the end of the world, but rather it is an opportunity to try again next time.
On that note, I brought up our deep breathing exercise with my son last night as he was getting frustrated with a bath toy. He took a deep breath in and exhaled into the water. He delighted in the bubbles he had created and his mood instantly transformed.
It is a reminder that we can return to the practices that nourish us at any time. We only just need to reclaim the moment and remember them.
Happy Spring!
xoJenny